This is my motto for 2010!

At the beginning of 2009, I told myself that I was going to do more for Carissa! I wasn't going to let anything or anyone stand in my way! And I would have to say I am really proud of myself...if there was something that I didn't want to do I didn't do it, if there was something that I wanted to do I did it! This year I can finally say that "I did me" and I am very happy about that! I know this may sound harsh but I cared less about what others thought of me, and I stopped worrying about what others thought of my decisions, I kept more to myself this year and didn't feel the need to tell everything or get every one's opinions on what I did! And I must say, it has been good feeling..."I'm proud of you Carissa!"

Going into 2010, I would like to continue to work on myself. I would like to continue to work on the things that I improved on emotionally with myself. I would also like to incorporate working out into my daily schedule...if nothing but 3 times a week, and eat healthier. I would like to start graduate school in the fall of 2010 (I need to start working on that essay that is due Feb 12, 2010)! I think that this upcoming year is going to be a year of changes for me from school to personal relationships, however, put it all in God's hands He will lead me in the right direction!

Glamour Magazine's: Five Beauty Lessons We Learned this year from Rihanna

Lesson 1) There's no reason to be shy when it comes to electric blue eye makeup.

Lesson 2) Short hair is super versatile if you're not afraid to play around with it.

Lesson 3) Purple lips can be hot. No, seriously, they can be.

Lesson 4) It's always nice to go soft and glowy, whatever your definition of that is.

Lesson 5) Some women actually can pull off that partially-shaved-head thing. But I still think we should leave this one to Rihanna.

Motivation: A Collective Coming of Age

Watch Kerry Washington’s short film from the 2009 Women of the Year Awards, featuring Eva Longoria Parker and Estelle.

www.glamour.com

Quote of the Day

“I think that to be stylish you have to connect to something and love it. And have a place for it in your closet and think about it and wake up and try it on. I mean, that's style.”
— Isaac Mizrahi

I CANT WAIT UNTIL MAY 2010!!!!

Sex and The City 2 Comes Out!!!!

I cant wait...

Vacation Read...

I thought this book looked very interesting! I wonder what it says about my handbag style.

Take a moment to read the description from

How to Tell a Woman From Her Handbag:
Fashion may come and go, but womens’ handbags are forever, revealing their nature and secrets. With forensic precision and cutting wit, Eisman helps women identify their own handbag persona's as well as those of families, friends, and foes. From the canvas tote lady to the hiking backpack lady to the Vuitton graffiti bag lady and the gym bag lady—Eisman’s clever treatise on how 40 of our favorite purses unveil our personalities is a gentle, teasing romp through women’s pop psychology.

American Apparel Nailpolish!

American Apparel launched a new nail polish collection, just in time for the holidays! I cant wait to try all of the colors! From pale pinks to deep blues and purples, this line contains all of the colors for a true beauty-lover’s collection.

Each lovely lacquer only costs $6!

I can’t wait to buy a few and test out the quality.

If you try them before I do please let know if they are worth me trying out!

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas Everyone from The Green Eyed Lady!!!

Essence Magazine: Curvy Girls (Holiday Chic)

These girls definitely have curve appeal! We take a look at some of the best looking frocks our full-figured celebrities are wearing now to help you start picking outfits for your busy holiday social calendar.

Chrisette Michelle

Jordin Sparks

Queen Latifah

Jazmine Sullivan

Jennifer Hudson

Toccara Jones

To read more, please go to www.essence.com

Center of My Joy...

Thank You Jesus!!!

Quote of the Day

If your worried about the Holidays...dont worry it will all work out and be amazing!

Santa Baby...

Ohhh I just love Eartha Kitt...Grrrr (thats her growl)!

Are you a Closet Eater?

So I was having a conversation with two of my coworkers about eating in the office. We were talking about eating lunch and indulging in desserts when there are special occasions in the office. When I go into the break room during lunchtime, everyone is eating some type of Lean Cuisine, Smart Start Meal, or something from home that is really small in portion. I have gotten to the point where if I want to warm up my food I try to wait until everyone is done to go warm my food up in the microwave and wait by myself. The reason I do this is because I feel that if I have a normal size portion from home (as in I didn't measure this by the palm of my hand) when I'm not eating a Lean Cuisine, others are looking at me like I'm a "Fat Ass." Now the feeling of looking at me like a "Fat Ass," is my own insecurity, however, what I don't understand is how lunch portions are so small but when someone brings in desserts for a birthday, anniversary, or holiday they are gone in 10 minutes...and that's stretching the time!

I really noticed this during this particular week, it was one of my coworkers birthday's and someone brought in cupcakes, another person brought in brownies, and someone else brought in pretzels with chocolate drizzled on them. The desserts were gone in a matter or minutes. After thinking about this I couldn't help but wonder, why is everyone here a closet eater. If you want it eat it (in moderation) but stop putting on a front like you don't eat sweets, or junk food ever! Even health guru's will tell you to indulge in something bad every once in a while, just don't go over board with it! For instance if you really have to have that bag of Cheddar and Sour Cream Potato chips (my favs)...either find a 25 cent bag, try baked ruffles, or find some veggie chips that have the same flavor.

I wish people would understand that it helps others to know that you can be healthy with out being perfect 100% of the time! When I think of losing weight and I talk to others and every time you talk to them they sound like they NEVER fall off then it turns me off because it makes me think that if you fall off one day then its just down hill from there! And really what is it with society that we have to make everyone think that we eat EXTRA healthy all the time but as soon as someone brings in sweets or some type of junk food we devour it!!!

OK, enough of my ranting...I just had to get that off my chest because I don't understand it???

V Magazine to Devote January Issue to Plus-Size Models

V magazine has settled on a new publicity horse for its January issue. "Page Six" reports that the magazine's first installment in the new year will be devoted to plus-size models."Big, little, pint-size, plus-size — every body is beautiful. And this issue of V Magazine is out to prove it!"

Models, which include Crystal Renn, appear clothed and nude, shot by photographers Terry Richardson, Bruce Weber, and Karl Lagerfeld, among others.

Plus-size models worked out pretty well for Glamour. After the magazine's photo of plus model Lizzie Miller became a sensation, editor Cindi Leive decided to use models of Miller's size in editorials for future issues, rather than rushing out a splashy PLUS MODELS ONLY issue. When magazines devote entire issues to that thing that they've shunned, it has the effect of tokenizing it. Look at the issue Italian Vogue devoted to black models. It was fantastic, but what then? Did the magazine incorporate new ideals into editorial concepts moving forward?

V is a very different sort of magazine from Glamour. You won't find life advice in there about boyfriends and distressing and loving yourself and having great sex all at the same time. You find terrific pictures of the trendiest models wearing (or sometimes not) the trendiest clothes out there. And the January issue sounds like just that: a trend.

Check out more of this article at www.nymag.com

Mo'Nique pictures by D. Banks!

Blessed...

So Darrick brought me to work this morning, and I'm here a little early! So I decided to blog as I eat my bagel and drink hot chocolate. Today I have to work at the registration desk, which means I won't be in my own office today...I don't mind but right now it is very quite in here (I'm the only one here). As I sit here and listen to the walls make noises, I reflect on how I never thought I would find the right job. I searched for a long time after graduation for another position (at a college or university)... and finally I ended up at a small university in Cleveland

(Thank You Jesus)!

I guess it wasn't on my time it was on God's time. I sit here thinking about how I went on interview after interview, sent in resume after resume, and I couldn't figure out why I wasn't being called, given a second interview, or being hired after my first interview...and sure enough after patiently waiting I was blessed with my current position. This year there has been a lot of changes in my life but I THANK GOD for each and every one of them!

People Magazine-New Twist on Classic Gifts

People Magazine-New Twist on Classic Gifts

http://www.people.com/

Philosophy's recipe-inspired shower gel and bubble bath set. The "Classic Cookbook" box, $35, holds their most delectable scents yet, including red velvet cake, cinnamon buns and spicy pear cobbler.

http://www.philosophy.com/

Luxe chocolatier Vosges is one-upping sausage baskets and frozen steaks with a Bacon Candy Bar Library, $25, which holds nine mini bars of – you guessed it! – chocolate infused with applewood-smoked bacon
http://www.vosgeschocolate.com/

Legendary L.A. bakery Sprinkles now comes in a mix, with six must-devour flavors to choose from, including Chocolate, Lemon, Banana and Red Velvet, for $14 a package.
http://www.williams-sonoma.com/

**Can someone please buy me the cupcake mix???**

PRETTY PLEASE!!!

Trend Alert: Red HOT Shoes

Hot RED heels add a bold pop of color to cool black, white and gray outfits!!

Nina-Elga

www.zappos.com

Charisma

http://www.marciano.com/

TOPPAZZ
http://www.stevemadden.com/

Boutique 9 Lookgood Dark Red Patent
http://www.overstock.com/

Glamour Magazine Blog: Big Girl in a Skinny World

I was introduced to this blog by my sister, an advid Marie Claire reader...was totally stoked when she saw the article from Big Girl in a Skinny World Blog in the January Issue! She called me as I was walking out the door to pick her up...she said you have to blog about this! I think my sister secretly a Big Girl trapped in a Skinny Girls Body (LOL)...but she is one of my TOP Supporters!

Ashley Falcon

Here is a little from Ashley Falcon...

"I'm the most stylish among my friends. Growing up in Miami's tight-knit Cuban community, I was the girl everyone sought out for fashion advice, the one who transformed boring outfits into head-turning looks with the flick of a collar or the cinch of a belt. Of course, it surprised no one that I decided to pursue a career as a fashion stylist—though at 5'2" and 220 pounds, I'd need an elaborate pulley system and a can of Crisco to shimmy into the clothes I dress models in. Instead, I'm relegated to the plus-size racks, where trendy usually translates into "when's your due date" empire waists and cinch-sack drawstrings. It's not easy being chic, but it's an epic struggle when you're a big girl.

I've struggled with weight—and how to camouflage it—my whole life. The skinniest I've ever been was in high school, when I weighed 150 pounds and subsisted on nothing but undressed salads. I long ago made peace with the fact that I'll never look good in a slinky dress or pleated paper-bag-waist pants, even if Coco Chanel herself came back from the dead to hand-stitch them for me. So I stick to cuts that always flatter—even in a size 18—like wrap dresses and pencil skirts. Then I'll style up dowdy items with high-end accessories, like the staggeringly awesome Louboutins I scored for Christmas or the YSL bag I recently got on sale. Big girls love accessories—they always fit, no size tags required."

*Oh I think Ashley is my new cyber BFF!!! She has all the same views and ideas that I have on fashion! Thank you so much (Carlyce-"my sister") for introducing Ashley and I! I wish all women could have this attitude that you have to be fabulous no matter what size you are! We all have our up days and our down days, however, what is most important is that you feel good in the skin you are in! And just because you may have a few unwanted pound that doesnt mean you have to give up on yourself...Fabulosity comes in ALL SHAPES AND SIZES!!!

Take a look at more from "Big Girl in a Skinny World"

http://www.marieclaire.com/fashion/fashionista-blog/plus-size-ashley-falcon-blog

BREAKING NEWS!

President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama pose with Norwegian Queen Sonja, King Harald, Crown Princess Mette-Marit and Crown Prince Haakon at the Royal Castle in Oslo. US President Barack Obama landed in Norway today to accept his Nobel Peace Prize

US President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama participate in the Nobel Peace Prize Signing Ceremony at the Norwegian Nobel Institute in Oslo on December 10, 2009

*This has to be an amazing experience for the President and his family!
Congrats Mr. President!


Check out more pictures at www.essence.com

Its that time of year again...

The Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree after the lighting ceremony at the Rockefeller Center Christmas tree lighting at Rockefeller Center on December 2, 2009 in New York City.

Well its that time of year again...CHRISTMAS TIME!

What is the hot item on everyone's list this year? Will the holidays be a recession holiday for you? What traditions do you/and your family have during this time of the year?

Send pictures and comments for me to share with everyone!!!

greeneyedladyblog@gmail.com

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Empress Lingerie

Welcome to your sexy!!
Treat your spirit, mind and body to a complete and extraordinary experience with luxurious lingerie from Empress Lingerie. Whether you're looking for a gift for the special person in your life or just something to slip into after a hard day at work, we have something for everyone. At Empress Lingerie, every woman is a queen!

Created with the above average woman in mind, this plus size lingerie celebrates the beauty and sensuality of fuller figures. By focusing on plus sizes, the fantastic selection of lingerie provides just the right amount of support, enhancement- and pizazz! Never again will you find yourself squeezing into a corset that was designed with a smaller busted girl in mind. I am also available for private parties and specialty fittings, to ensure your complete satisfaction.)

From sweet to sensual to downright racy - there's something on this site for every seductress. So let's start shopping!

I know the owner Domonique personally, I am so proud of her and Empress Lingerie!

Check Her Out Ladies!!!

**Ladies this is the perfect time of the year to purchase an item or two from Empress Lingerie! Surprise your significant other with a physical present they can unwrap on Christmas!***

Ohhh La La...

SKORCH December Issue is Available

Important Note from the Publisher:

Beginning December 1, 2009 SKORCH Magazine will begin charging $1 per issue ($1/month). Although we have been able to offer the magazine at no charge in the past, the increased amount of hours, manpower and talent that go into keeping SKORCH magazine THE voice of plus size fashion has caused us to reevaluate our pricing. This $1 a month will go a long way to help us keep the magazine fresh, trendy and innovative. The best part is that we will be able to find even more ways to bring you more of the hottest plus fashions and issues around the globe. We appreciate and love all of our dedicated readers that have continued to support SKORCH through thick and thicker. ;) We hope that if you have any questions or concerns you will not hesitate to contact us. We want to hear from you!
XOXO Jessica Kane - Owner Publisher jessica@kanekreative.com

The Glamazons in Sugar Rush

Plus-Sized Girl Group THE GLAMAZONS

Premiere Show SUGAR RUSH

December 8 & 15 at The Laurie Beechman Theater

The Glamazons are back and are as sweet as ever! You may remember Lady Finger (Meryl Finger), Candy Apple (Sandra May), Caramella (Laura Johnson) and Ginger Snap (Sarah Orr), the plus-size pop girl group whose mission is to show the world that talent comes in all sizes. The fierce foursome made it to the top 8 on the second season of NBC’s hit show “America’s Got Talent.”

Since the show, The Glamazons have recorded an EP (to be released February 2010), released a calendar, toured the world performing for hungry fans from Key West to Branson, Missouri to Italy, became models for Torrid clothing’s Spring collection and even sang the “Star Spangled Banner” at the Minnesota Vikings football game, but that was only a taste of what these buxom babes can do.

The girls have also had major successes on their own since “America’s Got Talent.” Each Glamazon has made a splash in primetime TV. Candy Apple recently appeared on FOX’s plus-size dating show“More to Love.” Lady Finger’s wedding is soon to air on the Style Channel’s “Whose Wedding is it Anyway?” Ginger Snap appeared on Oxygen’s hit show “Tori and Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood.” And Carmella has appeared in numerous runway shows, most recently for designer Monif C on BET’s “Rip the Runway.”

Come join The Glamazons for a night filled with sweet treats and surprises! They will perform everything from their hilarious bawdy standards to heartfelt ballads. They will even throw in some of their favorite holiday tunes and a sneak peek at The Glamazons brand new, original songs.

The Glamazons single “Sugar Rush” is available nowexclusively on Amazon.com: http://www.amazon.com

The Glamazons are sure to satiate your sweet tooth and leave you wanting more.

December 8th and 15th at 7pm

The Laurie Beechman Theatre

407 W. 42nd St (bet 9th and 10th Avenue)

$15 cover and $15 food/drink minimum

212.695.6909

Tickets are available at SpinCycleNYC.com or on the phone at 212.352.3101.

For all press inquiries please contact: SASi Public Relations: Stephen Schulman, Stephen@SASiPublicRelations.com, t: 212.675.4690, c: 646.246.6060, TheGlamazons.com

Article Provided By PLUS Model Magazine

**Wish I was in town...I would love to see the Glamazons**

Praise Break....Let Go and Let God!

Quote of the Day

"If you want to be nice to yourself, start by being nice to the other."

-Archbishop Desmond Tutu

Quote of the Day

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase.”
-Martin Luther King, Jr.